Is It Boring or Not? ~ Marriage Is What You Make of It!
I had someone say to me the other day that they would never get married. They said the reason why was that they would be bored, being with the same person day in and day out. Now first let me say I did not interject because I feel as if people are entitled to their own opinion. However, I will say right here and now that I didn’t agree, because guess what? I am entitled to my opinion as well. I have no problem being with the same man for the last 15 years. It has been an interesting journey, and just because you are married that doesn’t mean you still can’t enjoy a few minutes away from each other. My husband goes and hangs with his friends to play golf, race RC cars, and other hobbies they like to do. I like going shopping, getting my feet did, and actually I enjoy going to school. Those things we do apart and we have things we do together. You don’t have to be with each other every second of the day. You just have to remember to make time for each other, as well as yourself, and you won’t get bored. I think when me and my husband spend time away from each other, it makes when we come back together even more special. Marriage is what you make of it if you don’t do anything to make it interesting, of course, you’re going to get bored. However, if you love someone and want to make it exciting and fun you can as well. You just have to work at it.